You know those days when you’re not at the top of your game?
When things aren’t going your way, or you feel down, upset or pissed off?
Those can be the hardest days to connect with women. But they’re also the days when you could use some of that feminine juju to lighten you up.
Most of my clients come to me thinking they can’t show “negative” emotions or they’ll be seen as weak or unmanly.
But if you pretend you’re “fine” or happy, women’s spidey sense kicks in and they won’t trust you.
So what’s a man to do?!
The key is this:
You CAN show women your darker sides in a way that has them respect and even admire you. It’s HOW you share that has women want to be closer to you or eager to get away from you.
If you feel helpless and small and then dump your upset in a woman’s lap, she won’t admire you.
If you are so lost in your feelings that you can’t be present to her, she’ll want to mother you.
But if you know there is MUCH more to you than your feelings…
If you remember that feeling down doesn’t make you wrong or bad…
If you know that you’re still amazing, as you are, even if you don’t feel great today…
Then you can show your darker emotions while you remain centered, powerful and connected.
One of my clients who has stopped hiding his darker side recently said:
“I’ve got so much female attention around me all the time it’s kind of ridiculous! I’ve never experienced this before and I’ve been doing less than I’ve ever done.”
Showing your darkness can create depth and intimacy, spark and interest. And can lead to a powerful and wildly nourishing connection with a woman!
It’s not about being happy all the time. You get to be you!
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