Happy New Year!
I’ve heard some people say: “Let’s start the year off right!”
This can work if what’s “right” is what’s most fulfilling, inspiring and exciting for you.
“Right,” based on other people’s ideas or expectations is a straight path to an unsatisfying, or even hellish life.
Let’s start the year by looking at what’s right for YOU:
What do you want most this year?
And WHY does it matter to you?
When you want someone else to participate in your goals and visions (which is often the case), your WHY is often what inspires them to join you.
As a woman, hearing a man say, “I want to have more sex!” is very different than hearing “I want to have more sex, with you, because I feel closer and more connected to you when we do.” OR “…because I realize the times we have more sex are when I’ve been most aware of how precious you are to me.”
When a woman knows why you want something, it gives her a window into your heart. This helps her heart and body open to you.
It’s the same with strangers as with women you’ve been in relationship with for a long time.
Imagine saying to a woman you just met, “I want to take you on a date because these five minutes of conversation have been the best part of my day.” Rather than simply saying “I want to take you on a date!”
With the first statement, I felt myself blush (even as I wrote it)!
Try sharing your WHY and let me know how it goes.
Also, I added two new short audios to my FB page.
The first is about why it doesn’t work to go it alone. The second is about you having more sex and a key to more amazing sex.
Check them out and comment to let me know what you think.