Shana James, M.A.
Shana has coached close to a thousand men and women around the world to have passionate connections and fulfilling relationships, without compromise. Whether you're single and looking to date, want a long term relationship, or your relationship isn't satisfying, Shana will quickly pinpoint the cause. She'll illuminate why women are responding to you as they are, and help you create the spark and connection you want.
Shana does not teach games or pick up lines. She works specifically with each man in the places he holds back or feels stuck. With an open heart and incredible clarity Shana will "get" you in a way that allows you to decisively and effortlessly step into the connections and relationships you want.
Shana is a true ally for men. She draws on a decade of experience as a coach, workshop leader (the Authentic Man Program and Authentic Woman Experience), yoga, meditation and a Master’s degree in Psychology to help you have what is most important to you.
For more information, contact: info@themanshewants.
What men are saying about Shana…
"Before working with Shana, I felt I had to conceal my sexuality when interacting with women so as not to offend them. I also felt stuck in my career.
The money spent was a bargain. I feel like I've progressed 20 years in a few weeks. I've never felt so good about myself, or so secure. A lot of my worries are gone and I know I can deal with anything that comes my way.Through our work a whole new world opened up. I see new possibilities in my life – with women, with career, and everything I want to achieve. I got in touch with my masculine essence and I started a great relationship with a beautiful, spiritual woman as a result. I feel like a teenager right now. My new girlfriend and I made wild, passionate love until 4:00am last night. I love the way I feel at this moment."
-Joseph
"Before I was introduced to Shana by a great friend of mine, I felt like everything around me was meaningless. I was depressed and angry at times, other days I was sad and confused. I was 31 and heading towards a divorce. I saw 2010 as the worst year of my life.
Then I started my sessions with Shana. We spoke for a few months once a week about everything that was going on in my life. I took everything we discussed and put it to use. With her help I was able to meet a wonderful woman who has since made me happier than I ever was. With Shana as my coach this year is off to a fantastic start. I am predicting this to be the best year of my life for many reasons!"”
-Pete
Since working with Shana, I’ve felt more comfortable and right about myself, I’ve struck up warm conversations with beautiful women, and my girlfriend and I are closer and happier than ever.
Shana reflected me back to myself and I got a clear sense of what it’s like for a woman to be around me in my different states of being – so rare to get that kind of immediate feedback. Together, we explored ways I could let my authentic core come through.
In one particularly amazing session, she helped me touch an emotion that I thought had been dead in me. When I let myself feel it completely, things suddenly got full, present, authentic, joyful, spontaneous, effortless. Exactly what I wanted in the first place. To have this explained is one thing, but to be guided through the actual experience of it has opened my eyes and changed my way of being.
-Jason
My work with Shana awakens my inner spirit and gives me confidence as I express myself more fully every day. I’ve become more connected to my own and to my partner’s energy, presence, attention, feelings, and basically all that people communicate and share.
Shana’s focus, wisdom and humor allow us to work on the deepest personal levels and to unlock some hidden gems. Role playing with Shana is also an invaluable way to explore my edges and begin integrating new ideas into a daily practice.
Relating with Shana has a quality similar to sitting with the Buddah except that the ‘relating’ is more human and the energy is different. The quality of ‘dropping in’ is there in both settings, surrendering, opening, receiving.
-Bruce
"Spending time with Shana being in the presence of an amazing woman who can convey all the nuances of what it is is to be a woman. It was priceless to learn from the direct experience of her being grateful, nurturing, and even angry.
Before I worked with Shana it was like I was missing a puzzle piece, and I couldn't put my finger on what it was. I didn't feel ready to meet women. After spending time with Shana it became clear that I already have all the qualities I need to have. She helped me understand how to use them. Since then I have more easily met, connected with and dated incredible women."
-Kreso
Shana helps me get in touch with the desire in my heart, reminding me that not only is it OK to ask for my needs to be met in relationships, but that I have such needs in the first place! Such practice allows me to be an action, rather than stuck in my head, analyzing, keeping me from being present.
-Bruce
To put it simply, working with Shana changed my life. Before our work together, I was shy, timid, and lacking confidence with women and I hadn't had a relationship in over five years; I was unhappy with myself and scared that I may end up alone.
After finding Shana and working with her, she provided me with the tools to gain the confidence and self-esteem I sorely needed, not only in my personal life, but also my professional life. Because of our work together, I gained the courage to change professions and I am now in a healthy, committed relationship with an amazing woman. I am convinced that none of this would have been possible without Shana's help.
Shana possesses the gifts of connection, understanding, clarity, and wisdom, and I am deeply grateful for her support; truly, she has changed my life.
-Jon