I recorded a 3 part video summary of my book: Honest Sex. These days I see the book as a guide for how to take the effort out of your love and sex life. And how to release struggle, shame and self-doubt from your daily interactions.
I recognize that life is full and many people don't have time to read a book. So instead, you can check out the video summary.
Video One
Video Two
I make a couple of these available a week and they are first come first serve, so book a time now to get a spot.
I hope you enjoy my summaries of Honest Sex!
Love,
What Reviews Are Saying About Honest Sex
“Shana James is like your best friend, blended with the Dalai Lama and Dr. Ruth. Honest Sex is warm, wise and funny. It will help you create not only the sex life you want, but the rich relationships you need for true happiness.”
-Ed Frauenheim, co-author of Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection
“As a marriage and family therapist for more than fifty years, this is the book I've been waiting my whole career to give to my clients. I'll be telling everyone I know to buy three copies—one for yourself, one for your partner, and one for the friend who has been waiting for honest sex all their lives.”
— Jed Diamond, PhD, author of 12 Rules for Good Men, The Enlightened Marriage and other titles
“This is an honest book by and honest author who honestly describes the complex parts of my life with more clarity than I can! Honest Sex can permanently improve how we show up in our relationships.“
-Steve Horsmon, Men’s coach and Founder of Good Guys to Great Men and author of Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband
“Shana James is like your best friend, blended with the Dalai Lama and Dr. Ruth. Honest Sex is warm, wise and funny. It will help you create not only the sex life you want, but the rich relationships you need for true happiness.”
-Ed Frauenheim, co-author of Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection
“If you only read one book to help you with your relationship life and sex life, let it be this one! Honest Sex covers EVERYTHING you'd need to contemplate, be aware of, and learn to ensure a deep, dynamic and pleasurable relationship and sex life! It is a modern, multidimensional, and accessible roadmap to the areas of life we care about the most, and often know the least about!
— Alicia Davon, co-founder of the Davon Method
“Radical honesty is rare. And when it comes to sex and intimacy, truth telling can be the secret to liberating our capacity to love and live well. Shana knows this and shows us how. She demystifies the path to genuine pleasure and nourishing connections — fundamental human experiences we all deserve.”
— Sarah Marshank, author of Redefining Being Self-ish: My Journey from Escort to Monk to Grandmother, and Selfistry: A Guide to Embodying Timeless Spiritual Wisdom
“I am touched and inspired by Shana James’ intelligent, nuanced, and compassionate investigation of honesty as the cornerstone to passionate, engaged relationships. Her writing is clear, conversational, well-researched and grounded in years of professional practice. As a feminist, I appreciate her brave & vulnerable sharing of her own experiences, bringing light to why we shy away from being honest with our partners, in the bedroom and elsewhere.
The chapters' short (achievable) writing exercises deepened my understanding and led me to personal revelations. This book is about so much more than sex and delivers profound gifts. You won't regret this read.”
— Suiko Betsy McCall
“From my thirty-five years as a therapist, I can say Shana James is the real deal. Her understanding of relational struggles and the potential for inspiring human connection, along with her willingness to practice what she preaches, makes her a trusted guide.”
— Terrence Real, Founder, Relational Life Institute, New York Times Bestselling author of US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship and other titles