How to Make Dating Easier in This Crazy Mixed Up World

How to Make Dating Easier
in This Crazy Mixed Up World

Let’s be honest, dating is one of the most stressful experiences in life, especially these days!

Here’s how dating can be easier and more enjoyable...

This “Dating Masterclass” gives tips and tools for how to date in today’s world (post #MeToo, pandemic, online dating, 50+% of marriages end in divorce, chaos) to create satisfying and lasting love and sex.

Most of my clients, who are pretty confident in other areas of life, say that dating makes them anxious and frustrated.

Do you find:

Online dating to be challenging, awkward or downright frustrating?
Fewer opportunities in post-pandemic times to meet new people?
More insecurity as gender roles are rapidly changing?
Typical dating rules and maps make you more confused and less satisfied?
Trying to prove yourself, or impress others, makes you want to throw in the towel?

Many people tell me they’re comfortable once a relationship gets going, but in the beginning they are nervous and worried about rejection, which makes dating stressful rather than enjoyable.

Wouldn’t it be great to…

Be so relaxed when you’re flirting that you don’t even realize you’re doing it?
Have your inner critic stop ranting about whether you’re attractive or desirable enough?
Know how consent and authenticity can make you sexier?
Have a clear system for red and yellow flags, so you don’t waste time, but you also don’t lose people who are great potential partners?
Talking about sex and intimacy in a way that makes it more likely to happen, and to get better over time?

“How to Make Dating Easier in this Crazy Mixed Up World” is a video course

It is a comprehensive relationship guide that makes it easier to date and find great people to partner with. Shana brings 20 years of dating and relationship coaching gives you the freedom and skills to decrease the stress and pressure, and instead feel relaxed, enjoy yourself and build healthy, happy, hot relationships, while avoiding repeating past hurts or disappointments.

You’ll learn to believe in yourself (or to be sovereign and independent), and communicate in a way that brings you closer to others, rather than pushes them away. You’ll gain the fundamentals to experience a kind of love many people never have — one where you know your partner has your back, where your needs are met, and you feel deeply understood, appreciated and cherished, with intimacy that deepens, and passion that grows over time.

Self-paced videos, 2-3 hours per week for 8 weeks, lifetime access

You’ll get 8 in-depth modules (one released each week)

Module 1: How to feel GREAT about yourself so flirting and connecting feels relaxed and natural, and so people are drawn to you without any effort

a. A tool you can use to quickly discover your own greatness

b. A new way to think about flirting so banter and connecting feel natural and effortless

c. How to integrate consent to make you sexier and build attraction faster

Module 2: What (the REAL) deal breakers are on the first few dates and how to avoid them

a. The deal breakers beyond the surface deal breakers that many people don’t know about

b. The 8 Invisible Influences that help you create connection rather than push people away

c. What makes you stand out from others and be more likely to be chosen for a relationship

Module 3: First few dates jitters— Tongue-tied? Stammering? Awkward silences? We’ll get you through all of them. Your date will be amazed. And maybe even say: “Holy sh*t I didn’t know someone like you existed!”

a. 10 keys to date with ease, authenticity, self respect

b. The fastest path to turn awkwardness into connection

c. How to let go of trying to be perfect and discover your uniquely authentic traits that make you more desirable

Module 4: How to discern Red and Yellow Flags, and what to do when you like someone but you’re not sure if they like you!

a. How to avoid wasting your time with people who aren’t actually available

b. Simple ways to discover whether someone likes you back

c. Key communications after a first date to keep connection alive and help someone want more of your awesomeness

Module 5: How to avoid repeating hurts and disappointments from past relationships

a. The 4-step relationship clarity process to keep you from repeating past pain

b. How to update your desires to fit with your current self and phase of life

c. How to never again lose yourself in a relationship

Module 6: Transition from talking to sensual and sexual connection, without killing the vibe

a. Learn the part of communication (It’s not the words) that most often pushes someone away so you don’t do so unknowingly

b. How to talk about the love and sex you want in a way that makes you more likely to have it

c. Conversation frameworks for more and better sex

Module 7: Intimacy like you’ve never had it before – connected, hot, and honest

a. What’s possible in intimacy that many people aren’t taught and don’t realize

b. How to expand your pleasure by expanding your understanding of sex

c. Learn the conversations that ensure your sex life will continue to get better, not worse, as a relationship progresses

Module 8: Set the foundations for a relationship that not only lasts, but gets stronger and more connected for the rest of your life

a. How to avoid resentments by creating ways for both partners to win, rather than swapping who wins and who loses

b. The key to counter the dreaded trajectory of love fading into a roommate dynamic

c. The essentials to build and sustain the respect and trust needed for love and passion to thrive

Meet your Trainer:

I’m Shana James, MA
and this is why I believe you can trust me:

20 years working with thousands of men
Masters in Psychology
Decades of Man/Woman Dynamic training
Communication, Buddhist and Tantric training
Loving, Honoring Female Perspective

What others are saying:

It’s Like I’ve Progressed 20 Years in a Few Weeks

Before working with Shana, I felt I had to conceal my sexuality with women to not offend them. It’s like I’ve progressed 20 years in a few weeks. I’ve never felt so good about myself, or so secure. My new girlfriend and I made wild, passionate love until 4am last night. I love how I feel now. The money spent was a bargain.
– Joseph

I More Easily Meet, Connect With and Date Incredible Women

Before Shana, women were strange creatures I was trying to learn to ‘control.’ I had a successful life but women did not make sense to me.
Shana helped me understand women. Now I can more easily meet, connect with and date incredible women.
– Kreso

I Have a More Connected and Passionate Relationship

I turned to Shana even though I’m in a men’s group and deeply value men supporting me. Talking about relationship is something that feels very vulnerable. Men have their own stories, advice and judgments.
Shana listens without judgment or the “right way” to do things. Her listening and wisdom gave me the clarity to move forward, take powerful action and have more connection and passion in my relationship.
-J.B.

I Found the Same Success in Love I Was Having With My Company

Before I met Shana I was dealing with heartbreak. I was confused and needed help understanding women. With Shana’s love coaching I learned to connect with women in a deeper way. One woman found the new way I listened and paid attention so sexy that we fell in love. My relationships with my family and close friends improved too.
– Andrew

I Sold My House, Started a New Career and Dating Is Much Easier

Shana’s training and patience helped me become the best version of myself. I’m now dating as many women as time allows. I sold my house and am starting a brand new career that I didn’t have the confidence to start before. I am more masculine than ever and could not have done it without the sweet embrace of Shana’s femininity.
– Jake