Love and Sex Can Be Better Than Ever After 40
Struggle Less. Be Desired and Appreciated More.
If you’ve succeeded in many areas of life and done your best to be a good man, but the love and sex life you want isn't happening...
...This is the time when you can have the most connected, meaningful, and passionate relationship of your life.
YOU CAN:
- Be with a woman who appreciates you for who you are—not just what you provide
- Get out of the nice guy trap and emotionally distant relationships
- Reignite intimacy and trust in your current relationship—without shame, blame, or giving up
- Understand what women really want (without losing yourself to please them)
- Bring more confidence, desire, and emotional presence into love and sex
...There is a path to real, fulfilling love. You’re not alone. And it’s not too late!
MEET YOUR COACH
Hi, I’m Shana
With over 20 years of coaching experience, I’ve helped thousands of people create lasting, meaningful relationships. My approach blends deep self-awareness, conscious communication, and attraction principles that work in the real world — especially for men who want real love that feels safe, passionate, and deeply supportive.
And I walk this path, too.
I’ve been divorced, I’ve consciously co-parented, and I’ve done the inner work to rewrite old patterns. In my forties, I found a relationship where I feel more supported, cherished, and at home in myself than ever before — and I know what it takes to cultivate this kind of love.
WHAT SETS ME APART?
I understand both men and women’s emotional needs, and my work draws from a Masters in Psychology, Authentic Relating, Positive Intelligence (PQ) coaching, Tantra, and two decades of guiding people through emotional, relational, and spiritual transformation. I help you understand why women think, feel, and behave the way they do, and how to create connection that allows for saftey, honesty, depth and even sacredness.
I’m here to help you create a love life where you feel cherished, chosen, and deeply seen, without ever abandoning yourself.
What Makes This Different
This isn’t about proving yourself, performing, or becoming some idealized version of masculinity. All of that is exhausting and doesn’t get you the love you want.
It’s about showing up as you—real, grounded, open-hearted—and learning how to meet a woman in ways that naturally light you both up.
I’ve spent the past 20 years coaching men through breakups, divorces, sexual disconnection, and midlife longing. I’ve also helped men find the love of their lives after 40—even after deep pain or breakups.
As an ally for men, and a woman who wants you to have what you really want, I act as a translator and a guide to support you to discover your sovereign, confident self — who knows exactly what to say and how to say it, so you create deep connection and an amazing sex life, without struggle or self-doubt.