Three months into our coaching we revisited his goals because he was moving ahead at record speed. He was stronger, clearer and more powerful than ever, not only with women but also in his career and sense of purpose in life.
We created a list of what he accomplished over out time working together. It was much more than relationship or even career status. He stepped into being a free and confident man!
He said I could share this list with you and hopes it inspires you:
I stand up for myself, I have courage to stick to my beliefs and values — even with my mother who’s been an authority figure my entire life.
Fear no longer keeps me from what I want. I face, acknowledge and am ok with my fears.
I take the learning from self criticism to improve and put the part that is self-destructive in the “trunk” where it doesn’t negatively impact me.
My emotions are no longer in charge. I am in charge. I have a tremendous amount of power through my emotions that is now being optimized to my advantage.
I trust my gut.
I now admit that I’m vulnerable, sensitive, and scared and know I am stronger and more courageous as I do so.
I am aligned with myself. I like myself. I like my life. I cultivate friendships with honest people I trust.
I am human. My stories and past made me the man I am today. I embrace them and am proud of them — no longer ashamed.
No one gets put on a pedestal but me. My needs and wants are just important as others; and most important to me.
I do and go after what I want. I trust my good intentions for myself and others.
I am now comfortable with having a big impact on people and being powerful.
I have the ability to choose being out of the box, not following others’ rules
I set clear boundaries and have a clear conscience about my decisions
I am abundant. I have options. There’s no need to try to make something or someone fit into my life that actually doesn’t. I take my time and allow things to fall into place. When one thing doesn’t work out something else does.
I want, but don’t need, attention. Any one woman is not the only one.
This list moved me to tears.
Sometimes it’s pain that pushes us to grow.
All of this is possible for you too. And you deserve it.
P.S. Keep an eye out for my new podcast: Man Alive. I’ve already recorded some powerful conversations and I am thrilled to launch it in a few weeks!