Modern dating was NOT designed for thoughtful, self-aware people.
It rewards speed, anxiety, and performance instead of real connection.
Honest Dating is a more human way to date --- honest, meaningful, and real... Your path to find REAL LOVE.
No games.
Nothing to prove.
No pressure to be someone you’re not.
(Based on the Honest Sex principles)
“Shana James is like your best friend, blended with the Dalai Lama and Dr. Ruth. Honest Sex is warm, wise and funny. It will help you create not only the sex life you want, but the rich relationships you need for true happiness.”
-Ed Frauenheim, co-author of Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection
“As a marriage and family therapist for more than fifty years, this is the book I've been waiting my whole career to give to my clients. I'll be telling everyone I know to buy three copies—one for yourself, one for your partner, and one for the friend who has been waiting for honest sex all their lives.”
— Jed Diamond, PhD, author of 12 Rules for Good Men, The Enlightened Marriage and other titles
“Honest Sex is a delightful read and an important contribution to understanding how to enjoy deeply fulfilling sex and intimacy. I will be recommending it highly to my friends and clients.”
— Susan Campbell, PhD, author of Getting Real, From Triggered to Tranquil, and other titles
“This is an honest book by and honest author who honestly describes the complex parts of my life with more clarity than I can! Honest Sex can permanently improve how we show up in our relationships.“
-Steve Horsmon, Men’s coach and Founder of Good Guys to Great Men and author of Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband
Shana James has a Master’s in psychology, as well as DISC and Positive Intelligence certifications. As a relationship coach for 20 years, she humbly discovered the cause of disconnection and distrust in relationships, as well as how to build trust and keep passion alive. Shana has facilitated decades of Authentic Relating workshops based on her training in communication, mindfulness, psychology and sensuality, and specializes in helping clients date and create healthy relationships after divorce. Shana is the creator and host of the Man Alive podcast and has a TEDx Talk, 'What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal About the Crisis Between Men and Women.' Her first book is Power and Pleasure: A Man's Guide to Becoming a Confident and Satisfied Lover and Leader.
