This episode is my response to a client who recently asked how to still be seen as powerful and masculine as he shared his emotions.
Show notes on men and emotions
In this conversation I cover:
- How to feel the fullness of your attraction and desire without offending women
- How Head / Heart / Body balance impacts your attractiveness
- What happens when your heart is more open than your sexuality
- What makes someone feel drawn to you WHILE you share emotions
- The trap of thinking a woman is your only path to pleasure and happiness
Bio:
For 15 years I have coached nearly a thousand men — leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers and men with big visions. These men step into more powerful leadership, start and grow businesses, create more effective teams, increase their impact, get promoted, find love, rekindle spark, create a legacy, and become more personally inspired and fulfilled.
I’ve been known for my ability to assess, in just a few minutes, the cause of dissatisfaction and stuck points in your profession and love life. Then I create a clear and unique path for you to have true success and incredible love and sex.
Referred to by men as a secret weapon, I cut through distraction and provide direct access to your confidence, power and clarity. I am also a translator of “woman speak” and give you effective tools to transform conversations and dynamics that have gone awry into connection, affection and passion.
With an M.A. in psychology, DISC certification, more than a decade facilitating groups and workshops, starting multiple businesses and helping hundreds of entrepreneurs start their own, my range of skills is unlike many other coaches.
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Shana,
I really liked today’s podcast because it was from the feminine perspective. This is very helpful; the way you teach all of us men how and what all women want and desire from us even via emotional connection even though they may not be able to say in words to us. Even though it goes against everything I have ever learned or thought was necessary about sharing my own vulnerabilities with anyone let alone a woman; I will try to practice these baby steps by trying your teachings.
Being so vulnerable and open is especially difficult for me as I have formed dismissive + avoidant relationships with everybody, even my own family, all my life. This is why I am a loner with out very much contact out side of work. Recently, I started learning as much as I could about my own insecurities and now realize that these may have be caused by my own early childhood traumas. My core beliefs may have become my learned survival skills which were passed down to me by own parents from their own tough struggles in their lives. My mother’s dad died when she was 16 so she had to go out and work to support the family so this may have made her tough but not all vulnerable. My dad is an only child who also lost both of his parents very early in life and as he says “he was all alone for most of his teenage years and twenties until met my mother”; so he is of course very very stoic and was never vulnerable my brothers and I.
Bob, it’s powerful to learn about and dive into your childhood experiences and the survival skills you create as a result. Kudos to you for being willing to be honest with yourself. I commend you for taking on steps to practice. I hope you (and everyone who sees this) have compassion for yourself as you go!