Confident & Relaxed With Smart, Sexy Women
3 Keys to Stop Freezing, Fumbling or Feeling
Awkward With Women You're Attracted to
Video #1: The Perfect Woman Myth Bust
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Shana, this is a great reminder that no matter where we are in life there's always that common, dark thread that holds us all back in some way from showing ourselves and reaching out to connect with others. Taking someone down from a pedestal can really help us to relate more openly as humans – not as "me down here, you up there" like they're doing us a favor. I've seen that a lot, including in myself, and how it creates distance and frustration. I can feel a lot of power reigniting just by imagining what you're saying about relating to women I'm attracted to (and anyone else) as though they're equally concerned about life, success, failure, etc. as I am. Can't wait to put it into practice. Thanks a bunch, looking fwd to the next vid!
Carli
This is lovely Shana,I so appreciate YOUR humanity. Your message here goes way beyond merely being comfortable with attractive women, but about really seeing ourselves and each other beyond the appearances.Thank you for being such a fine example of a wise, loving, gorgeous, intelligent and powerful woman who is championing the same in all of us men who are willing to go the distance.Blessings in your life and work,David
Thank you, Shana!My awkwardness is different. It does not come from seeing a woman as perfect. It comes from the fear of screwing up and then (and only then) her viewing me as a desperate low value man. Sometimes I go aggressive and let a woman know my sexual interest in her, and then if she does not recepricate my interest, I still feel good about what I did. That means if I had a good strategy to follow when in the presence of a beatiful woman, I won't have any awkwardness.Regards,
Shana, this is great! Thanks for the practical advice on how to connect with the humanity of beautiful women we’re attracted to. However, I have to agree with the comment left by Fu on 7/21/2014. I mostly fear of coming off “lame” or not knowing what to say in order to connect on a level beyond the cordial and platonic. Perhaps being stunned by a woman’s attractiveness may be the cause of that awkwardness in the first place. LOL!