Can you image what your sex life would be like if you didn’t feel doubt or shame about your performance in bed or your ability to give a woman pleasure? Karen Brody and I talk today about what this could be like for you — the passion and connection possible as you reimagine your sex life!
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Have you ever felt shame or doubt about your “performance” in bed, or your ability to give a woman pleasure?
If so, today’s podcast is a must-listen!
Shame and self-doubt can keep spark and passion from igniting.
They can kill spark suddenly and surprisingly.
And they can creep in slowly over time, making sex that was once hot and exciting turn dull and disconnected.
From speaking to thousands of men, I know that many men experience only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the pleasure and intimacy that’s possible in the bedroom.
I wish it wasn’t this way. And believe me, so do the women I talk to!
They want you to feel great about yourself so you can be more connected and available for ALL the passion and play that is possible.
Coaching men for more than 15 years has shown me that YOU can have an amazing sex life, even if that’s not how it is right now!
Today’s Man Alive podcast guest, Karen Brody, agrees! She is one of my favorite men’s coaches. She is also the author of Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman’s Love & Desire. And she has a new TEDx talk: Re-imagining Masculinity.
In today’s conversation we talk about:
- How your sexual relationships are harmed and shaped by shame
- What a shame-free emotional and sexual connection looks and feels like
- How to understand a woman’s negative reactions to sex and inspire positive ones
- What naturally evokes more depth, play and sensuality from a woman
- The path to letting go of the parts of you that perform and are afraid of rejection
When two women who love men get together to support you to have more and better love, connection and sex, you don’t want to miss it!
When you’re done listening to this one, check out my first Man Alive podcast episode with Karen: How to Transform a Sexless Relationship. You’ll love this one too!
Links:
Karen’s book: Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman’s Love & Desire
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Bio:
For more than two decades, Karen Brody has helped successful men reclaim their masculine power to become the kind of leaders and lovers they’ve always dreamed of being.
She knows you can have the great sex, respect and love you deserve without having to bargain or compromise who you are or what matters to you and has witnessed hundreds of clients achieve this level of personal success in every area of their lives.
It’s Karen’s passion to empower you and set you free so you can live life on your own terms and; unlock your hidden potential. She believes you absolutely possess the elemental masculinity that a woman craves and teaches you to unleash the energy and its power, in ways that are irresistible to the world and to your woman.
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Interesting, how much of a man or woman’s desire and fantasies are programmed by culture, marketing and advertising (porn is part of this conditioning).
Thank-you Shana for this conversation that you had with Karen Brody. I have followed Karen for a while now and I have her book “Open Her”. Yet, I still feel that there is a lot for me to learn on how to be a better lover for the woman in my life (I am not currently with someone, yet working on changing that with a very special someone).
Shame is SUCH a big thing for everyone and especially for myself with life experiences involving sex and around sexuality. This has been VERY helpful in looking to find a more empowered space to come from and be from which would ultimately be more attractive to a woman. Because it really is true that men desire to please and pleasure their women, yet it needs to come from a more empowered space from within for it to really be effective and pleasureable, deeper and more fulfilling for both the man and woman.
Thank-you again.
Sincerely,
David